There are several factors of being an over-the-road trucker which can breed jealousy. For example, not knowing where your partner is or what they are doing, having way too much time to think while you drive, and general miscommunication via text or phone can all easily hit that jealousy bone.
Before we go any further, maybe we should define jealousy: "Jealousy is triggered by the threat of separation from, or loss of, a romantic partner, when that threat is attributed to the possibility of the partner's romantic interest in another person." (Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, Sharpteen & Kirkpatrick, 1997, page 628)
Where does jealousy come from? It is important to realize that a person becomes jealous when he or she thinks their partner will cheat. There can be a variety of reasons a person is jealous, but here are a few of the common ones:
If you are worried that your partner will cheat on you because someone else has cheated on you in the past, this worry is not fair to your current partner. Just because someone else has cheated on you in the past, it doesn't mean your current partner will cheat on you.
If your current partner has cheated on you in the past and you are worrying about a repeat performance in the future, it makes sense that you will have concerns. Your partner’s actions of being faithful and doing what is asked is the only way he or she can show changed behavior. Relying solely on words only goes so far. If you become one of those people who feel you must checkup on your partner or watch their every mood, this can be very draining and doesn't lead to a healthy relationship. If you have to watch their every move, why are you still with them?
Here are some ideas on how to improve your relationship and minimize
About Buck Black
Buck Black is a licensed clinical social worker who specializes in working with truckers and their families. He offers affordable trucker-friendly consultation via phone and Skype at TruckerTherapy.com, but he also has a private practice at the Heartland Clinic in Lafayette, Indiana. Black also has clinical experience helping adolescents and adults with a wide range of problems including relationship issues, substance abuse, anger management, anxiety, and depression. Visit his office website at BuckBlack.com or follow @TruckerTherapy on Twitter to learn more.